Anonymous asked: Tell me a memory that makes you smile uncontrollably :)
This is a good question! A memory that always makes me smile is when Ali Kate and I went to the Tokyo Police Club show and we were right in the front row and we tried to touch everything on the stage that we could reach :p
Bring consent out of the bedroom. I think part of the reason we have trouble drawing the line “it’s not okay to force someone into sexual activity” is that in many ways, forcing people to do things is part of our culture in general. Cut that shit out of your life. If someone doesn’t want to go to a party, try a new food, get up and dance, make small talk at the lunchtable—that’s their right. Stop the “aww c’mon” and “just this once” and the games where you playfully force someone to play along. Accept that no means no—all the time.
The Pervocracy: Consent culture. (via dumbledoreisabamf)